Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Love is a strong word and action so is hate and anger
Affirm your children's worth non-verbally, with a hug, a loving look, and by spending quality time with them. Words are important but the need to be mothered by the action of love is of utmost importance. When you have words, feelings, and actions, that are in harmony with actions your Affirmations ring true.
Affirm positively on a regular basis and your child will internalize the words you say.
This becomes your framework for stimulating positive thoughts with your children everyday. It ensures you visit every aspect of a children's positive development through powerful thoughts. It provides an opportunity to be proactive and discuss issues that would not normally come up until it was too late.
Affirm positively on a regular basis and your child will internalize the words you say.
This becomes your framework for stimulating positive thoughts with your children everyday. It ensures you visit every aspect of a children's positive development through powerful thoughts. It provides an opportunity to be proactive and discuss issues that would not normally come up until it was too late.
More on positive affirmations and the young
I want to watch you to watch your thoughts, words, actions, and manners, and use positive Affirmations to help you love and respect yourself and others.
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Affirmations of unconditional love go right to the core of children; they thrive on words of encouragement about how smart they are and what good marks they get on their report cards.
Children can be programmed negatively in subtle ways. I call this brain wasing in the negative.
When you tell your children to be careful, for example, you may be implying that the world is full of great big boogiemen lurking around every corner and tree.
It is extremely important to talk to children about the real dangers, such as speaking to strangers or taking rides or candy from people they do not know. Do refrain from filling their innocent minds with thoughts of doom and fear.
To further enhance your child's positive outlook, be careful to avoid using the word but. For example, if you say to your child, I love you but you are lazy and untidy, you are affirming your child's negative behaviour and cancelling out the positive statement of love.
Affirm the child's special attributes, saying, "You have a great smile, your skin is silky, or your teeth are so perfectly formed." You can always find something positive to say to your child.
Dear Lili
the above description is what I am talking about when I refer to your life. I know they are negative and aggresive in their love. They are people who are fearful and because fear for them is a weakness they attack it with negative aggression. It is like they are angry in the moment they feel fear.
We will get through this and I will be here for you for all the days of your life. I am here now. We just do not see each other or hear each other.
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Affirmations of unconditional love go right to the core of children; they thrive on words of encouragement about how smart they are and what good marks they get on their report cards.
Children can be programmed negatively in subtle ways. I call this brain wasing in the negative.
When you tell your children to be careful, for example, you may be implying that the world is full of great big boogiemen lurking around every corner and tree.
It is extremely important to talk to children about the real dangers, such as speaking to strangers or taking rides or candy from people they do not know. Do refrain from filling their innocent minds with thoughts of doom and fear.
To further enhance your child's positive outlook, be careful to avoid using the word but. For example, if you say to your child, I love you but you are lazy and untidy, you are affirming your child's negative behaviour and cancelling out the positive statement of love.
Affirm the child's special attributes, saying, "You have a great smile, your skin is silky, or your teeth are so perfectly formed." You can always find something positive to say to your child.
Dear Lili
the above description is what I am talking about when I refer to your life. I know they are negative and aggresive in their love. They are people who are fearful and because fear for them is a weakness they attack it with negative aggression. It is like they are angry in the moment they feel fear.
We will get through this and I will be here for you for all the days of your life. I am here now. We just do not see each other or hear each other.
My Grand-daughter, Please listen.
Dear Lili
I am researching positive affirmations. I am doing this for you but also because I came from the same place you are growing up in. My people were very fear based and negative to us as we grew up also.
I hear you are depressed. I know why you are. They choose not to see the results of their actions, which is you a young child being depressed.
I will somehow find a way for you to read some of this information and possibly comprehend the work you must do in order to come out of this not as broken as they are or we were.
Hang in there my little angel girl. I am praying that God opens doors and windows for you to fly.
I love you,
Nana
I am researching positive affirmations. I am doing this for you but also because I came from the same place you are growing up in. My people were very fear based and negative to us as we grew up also.
I hear you are depressed. I know why you are. They choose not to see the results of their actions, which is you a young child being depressed.
I will somehow find a way for you to read some of this information and possibly comprehend the work you must do in order to come out of this not as broken as they are or we were.
Hang in there my little angel girl. I am praying that God opens doors and windows for you to fly.
I love you,
Nana
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Dear Lili
Dear Lili doll,
I was so upset to hear they have put you on another medicine. My God. You are a child who wants to see her mother and her family. They stole you and hid you from us.
I wish I could get to you so I could just let you know it will be okay. I want you to keep praying, that is all we can do right now. You MUST be strong. Must!!
I will research a few positive affirmations for you and next time your mama visits I will have her give them to you. You will keep this piece of paper with you wherever you go untill you memorize them.
When you start to feel bad...you start to say these statements over and over again in your head to yourself. I do this when I am having a particularly bad day. And I do them when I am having a good day too.
I love you LILI
Nana
I was so upset to hear they have put you on another medicine. My God. You are a child who wants to see her mother and her family. They stole you and hid you from us.
I wish I could get to you so I could just let you know it will be okay. I want you to keep praying, that is all we can do right now. You MUST be strong. Must!!
I will research a few positive affirmations for you and next time your mama visits I will have her give them to you. You will keep this piece of paper with you wherever you go untill you memorize them.
When you start to feel bad...you start to say these statements over and over again in your head to yourself. I do this when I am having a particularly bad day. And I do them when I am having a good day too.
I love you LILI
Nana
Monday, July 12, 2010
Dear LIli
I love you.
I made you a set of bracelets. I hope you wear them and know they were made with love for you. They are colorful and playful. You can wear them with your jeans and such. I am making more but different colors and styles. I will send you more. I bought you some lipstick today.
NOw that I know we can mail you stuff...well I am excited cause I can put stuff in the box your Mom is getting together for you.
I love you koushouni mou!!
Your Grandmother....Nana
I made you a set of bracelets. I hope you wear them and know they were made with love for you. They are colorful and playful. You can wear them with your jeans and such. I am making more but different colors and styles. I will send you more. I bought you some lipstick today.
NOw that I know we can mail you stuff...well I am excited cause I can put stuff in the box your Mom is getting together for you.
I love you koushouni mou!!
Your Grandmother....Nana
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